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Alright in my cirlce of friends cheating is going around. Some haven't got caught, except 1 who gets caught constantly, guess what he got caught again and this time Im the one who took him out and his lady blames me "Whatever don't care"

So my gf and me are talking about how often our friends cheat and in some cases get caught. compared to them I'm freakin awesome "never cheated,never got caught"

So I told her we've been together for 9yrs this September and I've never cheated... if I ever did cheat and get caught I should get like a free pass right?
She did not agree and wants me to explain/convince her why I think that. "She ain't mad were just playing with the subject"

Whats your guys input.

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Don't cheat. There's no point to doing it.

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9yrs damn good stuff, but you should start off with "remember that 1 time i went to band camp well....." lol
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Never cheated on a chick, never will. "I never fucked no one over in my life, never had it coming to me."

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quote:
Originally posted by NEIGHT:
Never cheated on a chick, never will. "I never fucked no one over in my life, never had it coming to me."

I have never cheated either and i never will. There's no point in doing it. If you need some that bad just call your woman.

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Originally posted by SwEeT 03 Gt:
9yrs damn good stuff, but you should start off with "remember that 1 time i went to band camp well....." lol

Yup I'm 21, 2 children with her. My son 6yrs old, daughter 3yrs old.

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I personally do NOT agree with cheating. If you are tempted enough to cheat, you need to leave the relationship.
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U guys are making me feel bad [Frown] lol

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6 years here never cheated once, they say she stops doing what she needs to do to keep this relationship happy she knows damn well somebody else will. Works both ways too, so with that attitude we seem to keep eachother pretty freakin satisfied!! Lol.
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quote:
Originally posted by WildFire532FB:
Don't cheat. There's no point to doing it.

Yea I know ppl say just don't do it.
I look at it as just because you cheat does not mean you don't love her, But I understand and respect the reasons why your not suppose to.
Were kinda an open couple "not open relationship" just not shy so this is kinda lenient compared to regular lovy dubby relationships

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Dont do it. If you want to go around the block don't stand still with one and ruin it for her...

Ask yourself...how would YOU feel if she cheated on you? Would you give her a free pass?

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I've cheated. Been cheated on. Been the one someone cheats with. Been there for the friend who's been cheated on. Shit happens.

Life's short. Do what you can, while you can. None of us are getting any younger. I'd rather look back one day on the stupid things I've done and smile, than look back and regret not doing stuff while I had the opportunity and frown.

I'm not saying always cheat... if you have someone in your life that you love and can't do without... maybe a wife or fiance, then of course don't do anything you think might jeopardize that...

[ April 24, 2012, 11:28 PM: Message edited by: 04 S281 ]

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quote:
Originally posted by stock fox:
U guys are making me feel bad [Frown] lol

Don't. Ppl don't know the whole story.

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quote:
Originally posted by 98z28:
6 years here never cheated once, they say she stops doing what she needs to do to keep this relationship happy she knows damn well somebody else will. Works both ways too, so with that attitude we seem to keep eachother pretty freakin satisfied!! Lol.

+1 yea bro forsure

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Hit the gasser, go faster, all u heard was dual exhaust n flowmasters.

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quote:
Originally posted by autumnstang97:
Dont do it. If you want to go around the block don't stand still with one and ruin it for her...

Ask yourself...how would YOU feel if she cheated on you? Would you give her a free pass?

O I'm not asking to cheat or not to. If you dont wanna hurt feelings dont be careless while you cheat by getting caught.Yea I did give her a free pass she gave the sorry excuse that I payed too much attention to my first 5.0 in high school and honestly I didn't care because I think different besides I'm totally confident "not hung but I'm great at it and just confident"

[ April 24, 2012, 11:43 PM: Message edited by: Stangn5oh ]

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Agreed...life is short and doing crazy things can sometimes make us feel complete. Just be smart about it.

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Originally posted by 04 S281:
I've cheated. Been cheated on. Been the one someone cheats with. Been there for the friend who's been cheated on. Shit happens.

Life's short. Do what you can, while you can. None of us are getting any younger. I'd rather look back one day on the stupid things I've done and smile, than look back and regret not doing stuff while I had the opportunity and frown.

I'm not saying always cheat... if you have someone in your life that you love and can't do without... maybe a wife or fiance, then of course don't do anything you think might jeopardize that...



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im surprised with the answers you all are giving.. i see boneing hoes like jacking off.. doesnt phase me at all..but you got to be safe and not get caught..
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I don't understand what's hard about this - don't cheat

If you can justify cheating on someone - just because you can get away with it - does that mean you're OK with her cheating, just as long as you never find out? Applying the same logic to both sides suddenly makes it less appealing, right?

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My girl and i previously talked about cheating.the outcome was

always use a condom
don't take them out or buy them stuff
No relationships and better just be a fuck

But that was a "what if" conversation and not its OK

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Frank you are a fuckn vagina..you just got cought up and posting this in advice guess whos getting screwed with child support budddy glw your issues.... [patriot]

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Ok now that were on the subject i have a problem too i like getting at chicks for instance ill get a girls number and never call her its just something about that initial chase that i love...now is that as bad as cheating?

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With this being said any swingers in the house?

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quote:
Originally posted by phil a:
If you can justify cheating on someone - just because you can get away with it - does that mean you're OK with her cheating, just as long as you never find out? Applying the same logic to both sides suddenly makes it less appealing, right?

I agree with parts of this, from a certain point of view.

I think "getting away with it" shouldn't matter. Don't do anything you wouldn't want everyone knowing about. If you have to worry about hiding it, you probably shouldn't do it.

and with that in mind, you should always ask yourself how you'd feel if the girl you're dating cheated on you, wether you found out or not... and if it bothers you, then don't do anything to her that you wouldn't want her to do to you.

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quote:
Originally posted by 04 S281:
quote:
Originally posted by phil a:
If you can justify cheating on someone - just because you can get away with it - does that mean you're OK with her cheating, just as long as you never find out? Applying the same logic to both sides suddenly makes it less appealing, right?

I agree with parts of this, from a certain point of view.

I think "getting away with it" shouldn't matter. Don't do anything you wouldn't want everyone knowing about. If you have to worry about hiding it, you probably shouldn't do it.

and with that in mind, you should always ask yourself how you'd feel if the girl you're dating cheated on you, wether you found out or not... and if it bothers you, then don't do anything to her that you wouldn't want her to do to you.

Jared

You saying that if the girl you're dating cheated on you and you found out, it wouldn't bug you? Not putting words into your mouth my man, just trying to get a clearer picture

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quote:
Originally posted by phil a:
I don't understand what's hard about this - don't cheat

If you can justify cheating on someone - just because you can get away with it - does that mean you're OK with her cheating, just as long as you never find out? Applying the same logic to both sides suddenly makes it less appealing, right?

I see things as shit happens for a reason "not kharma" so what ever you decide to do don't bitch about your actions just fix your current situation

[ April 25, 2012, 12:23 AM: Message edited by: Stangn5oh ]

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Hit the gasser, go faster, all u heard was dual exhaust n flowmasters.

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