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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Red98: [QB] 1. If she was trying to get pg and at the same time so unhappy with the relationship she was contemplating divorce, she's mentally/emotionally very immature and self centered. That's the kiss of death for a marriage. She's obviously someone you love, but at the same time with that mind set, not a good marriage partner at this time of her life. Those traits are hard for her to overcome as she doesn't see them as a problem. 2. You at least admit what the problem was, attitude and behavior and treating her poorly. Very few women would put up with that, and those that do won't be happy. Those are hard to change, but if you see them as a negative behavior, and want to change, you can. 3. Based on my experience for years with a mentally/emotionally immature self centered woman, if she doesn't want a divorce, I would. Not what you want to hear. But that's just my experience. And like with me, you need to clean your crap up, as you already mentioned. 4. You can always get new "stuff", but you can't always get happy. As far as community property goes, it's stuff you get while you're married. If one of you bought a car during the marriage, it is completely community property, meaning 50/50 ownership. If you owned a car, house etc before the marriage, then it depends on the value of that item at time of divorce as to who owns what part. If you owned a house when you got married and it cost say $200,000, but now is worth anything under 200,000, there is no gain in community value and she would have no financial interest in the house. It it is worth $250,000 now, there is $50,000 of community value, so she has a $25,000 interest in your house. Same with a car, but if you owned it before marriage, and they usually depreciate, then she has no financial interest in the car. If you owned a clunker at marriage, and restored it to where it is worth more that when married, she has a financial interest. Based on my experience. And I don't think selling for cheap or transferring ownership is going to fly. Good luck. [/QB][/QUOTE]
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