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Author Topic: advise Insurance Guy ¯ Member # 8241 posted                                 question... I have a very good friend who i have been friends with since the 1st grade. we do not hang out as much anymore but i still consider he like a sister to me. she has been and still is in a serious relationship. they guy she is with very cool someone who i have always gotten along with. i heard though the grap vine that he is cheating on my friend. i did some digging and i have confirmed that the info is true. they have been together for over 6 years but he has been cheating for about the last year with just one other person. my loyalty lies completly with my old friend she was a my friend first and she is my oldest friend. but part of me really does not want to get involved at all especally since i really like the guy she is with. advise? cuz i am not really sure what to do. -------------------- 01 GT Drop Top (R.I.P.) 02 GT Drop Top (Sold) 17 5.0 GT Coupe Posts: 597 | From: San Leandro | Registered: Feb 2008  |  : 90gtvert ¯ Member # 8697 posted                              Tough situation. I have always told my friends that If this was happening I would want to know. If she really is like a sister to you, then whats best for her is to know the truth IMO. No one wants to feel/look like a fool when someone is cheating on them, most people know about it except for the person being cheated on. My .02 take it for what its worth. Mike -------------------- 90 GT Vert 93 GT http://www.110octanephotography.com Posts: 1889 | From: Bay Area | Registered: Oct 2008  |  : NiftyWhiteFifty ¯ Member # 4320 posted                              I say she deserves to know. If I were in your situation I would tell her -------------------- '05 F150 4x4 Posts: 2056 | From: San Jose | Registered: Mar 2004  |  : 9cobra7 ¯ Member # 2812 posted                              Simply put: Just think of her as your sister and the answer is clear. You wouldn't want your sister dating a cheater soooooo........... -------------------- If you can't walk and chew gum at the same time, don't walk. Posts: 2633 | From: usa | Registered: May 2003  |  : Insurance Guy ¯ Member # 8241 posted                                 thanks for the advise guys. hearing what you have to say does make me realize i know that the right thing to do is telling her. i hope they are able to work it out. but i know that if it were me i would not be able to forgive my spouse for cheating. -------------------- 01 GT Drop Top (R.I.P.) 02 GT Drop Top (Sold) 17 5.0 GT Coupe Posts: 597 | From: San Leandro | Registered: Feb 2008  |  : 90gtvert ¯ Member # 8697 posted                              There is always the other way: Kidding, that only happens in JaeJae's neighborhood Mike [ November 11, 2008, 08:03 PM: Message edited by: 90gtvert ] -------------------- 90 GT Vert 93 GT http://www.110octanephotography.com Posts: 1889 | From: Bay Area | Registered: Oct 2008  |  : drop92 PITUDO RACING 415 Member # 1323 posted                              i say call joey greko from cheaters on put it on national TV Posts: 3422 | From: SF | Registered: May 2002  |  : 90gtvert ¯ Member # 8697 posted                              ^^^^^ That would be the shit -------------------- 90 GT Vert 93 GT http://www.110octanephotography.com Posts: 1889 | From: Bay Area | Registered: Oct 2008  |  :

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