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BLK02GT
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seriously WHAT THE FUCK is happening in my life right now??
1st...me and gf break up after 2 1/2yrs
2nd...i get fuckin FIRED from my job over some bullshit (and believe me it is bullshit)
3rd....NO JOB, have an apartment to pay for NO MONEY!
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EX textes me saying she is moving back into the apartment..and wants MY KEY too..wtf?? so her NEW fuckin boyfriend can be there and i wont walk in on them...fuck her..i hate that bitch now..fuck her and her boyfriend..my life fuckin sucks right now..i jus thank god i have my friends without them i would NEVER get through this!
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sorry guys i needed to vent..
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Posts: 1247 | From: Tracy, ca | Registered: May 2005
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JohnCM
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oh man, That's pretty frickin' bad man. Just think it's only uphill from here. Hang in there
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Damn bro im fucken speech less,i thought my life had some problems.So your Ex girlfriend is moving back into your place with her new BF,Im confused ![[Confused]](confused.gif) Damn that sucks,Well try to find a job any job hella people are hiring right now for the Holidays man Just keep your head up Man ![[patriot]](graemlins/patriot.gif)
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Unless she is on the lease with you tell her to move elsewhere. If she is on the lease and she moves back in with a new boyfriend. Make life hell for that bitch. U don't need to deal with that shit!
p.s Your ex girlfriend sounds like she is a total slut! maybe you can slide me her # ![[Big Grin]](biggrin.gif)
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88DroptopGT
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1st - Don't worry about the GF. There are much more fish in the sea. I was in a longer relationship and got dissed. You gotta get burned to learn.
2nd - Find another job as soon as possible.
3rd - Do you have parents or anyone you can live with? That seems to be your only option until you get back on your feet. Maybe file for bankruptcy?
Did you pay off your car already?
Posts: 3978 | From: 707 | Registered: Mar 2003
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BLK02GT
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idk if shes moving into the apartment WITH him..i know for a fact he will be there though. wow i have neevr been so stressed in my life! i kno i am only 20 but im stressin like a 30 yr old! fuck! (no offense to the older ones on this board). i just dont wanna blow up...especially if i see them now..i was coo before but now this just topped the fucin cake off..i DONT want to ever see them together i wont be able to keep my composure
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uh0h50
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goddamn man, i feel for you. i thought the breakup was bad enough, now you lose your job?! and now your ex wants to move back in?! jeez man, i'm sorry about you situation, but its good that you're venting out your frustration instead up keeping it in.. i really dont know what to say for words of encouragement, but all i can say is that i feel for you man.. we're here for your bro!
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BLK02GT
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quote:
Originally posted by 88DroptopGT:
1st - Don't worry about the GF. There are much more fish in the sea. I was in a longer relationship and got dissed. You gotta get burned to learn.
2nd - Find another job as soon as possible.
3rd - Do you have parents or anyone you can live with? That seems to be your only option until you get back on your feet. Maybe file for bankruptcy?
Did you pay off your car already?
NOPE..car payment of $270/mo
APARTMENT.. $362.50 (thats half) a month..
plus cell phone bill and CC Bill..im fuckin screwed...my parents said theyd help a bit..so im thankful for that
im not trippin off the girlfriend...at all..im trippin off the fact that she wants to move back in and i KNOW DAMN WELL why she wants to..im fuckin DONE with her bitch ass..fuck her and him.
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CLEEN 50
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Damn man. I'm sorry to hear about all that. Let me know if you wanna burn one, its on me ![[Wink]](wink.gif) . This will only make you stronger man, just keep your head on straight and I promise everything will work out for the best. Right now you probably have a fuck the world attitude and I don't blame you, but ya need to turn the negative energy into something positive. I know it's easier said than done, but it works. Don't focus on anything right now besides getting an job and getting back on your feet, after move onto the next step. One step at a time. Stay up man.
[ October 18, 2005, 07:28 PM: Message edited by: CLEEN 50 ]
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First of all, FUCK THE BITCH! Have her skank ass move in and help pay the rent in the mean time. Instead of you paying it all. Don't waste a second looking for a job. Start applying everywhere, even if its a job you dont really want to work at. Just something to make some income, while you can still look for a better job in the meantime while making some little cash.
Then you gotta try your best to not show any emotion and just go with the flow. Even though you may have feelings for her or want to fight the dude. Everyone hates it when a person doesn't show emotion towards something, that they want to see from. We've all been there before, whether its being broken up in a relationship or showing off your car or whatever. When you show no emotion towards her/them and the situation. You will have her thinking/guessing as to why your so cool about it.
[ October 18, 2005, 07:32 PM: Message edited by: venomized93 ]
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Take it from a real old guy(older than even 30 LOL) Don't hang around or even think of sharing a apartment with a EX. It will turn out way Bad. If your parents will help you out gor for it and get on your feet than when your ready get back in the game. The same thing happens all the time to other people and they get through it fine good luck.
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If you can, move back in with your parents. Rooming with an Ex spells trouble. It ain't worth it. ![[Frown]](frown.gif)
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Originally posted by JohnB:
If you can, move back in with your parents. Rooming with an Ex spells trouble. It ain't worth it.
+1
Good luck Glenn, sorry to hear all that. Keep everything in perspective, bro.
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hang in there bro,ull get threw this.
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Let me get this straight she wants to move back in to the apartment you guys shared? I agree move back home and get eveything straight. Good thing you are only 20 moving back home should be no big deal.
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damn glenn sorry to hear...but ya move out soon u can...and if that guy even wants to stay there make sure he pays YOU rent to stay there..
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Hey bro I know how you feel. It sucks when someone you care for breaks up with you and throws all this shit at you too. But like someone said earlier you have to turn that negative energy in to poisitive energy. For instance when my ex broke up with me I started hitting the gym hard to let me fustration out. Not only did I vent my fustration and anger in a poistive way, ive never been in such great shape either because it just became a good habbit for me. So you just have to find something to focus that negative energy on. Plus all things get better with time, i know it sucks right now but trust me when your down the only place to go is up.
I also agree that you should move back in with your parents. If you live with your ex things can get ugly pretty quick. Move back in with your parents and just pull your weight around the house and im sure they'll be cool with it, save up some money and move in with some of your friends or something after that. I hope everything turns out okay
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You should focus on getting a job asap... rent, insurance, car payment, bills, cell... they all add up quickly man!!!
if you are on a lease, is she on it? if she is... thats gonna be a though one... if she's not, tell her to kick rocks. If its a month to month, tell her that you are moving out, and if she pays you the deposit she can have it.
but get a job asap man!
and cheer up... things always look the darkest before they get better.
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If all else fails you can move in with me big boy. ![[Razz]](tongue.gif)
You'll have to park in the street cuzz the driveway is mine bitch. ![[Smile]](smile.gif)
If you touch any of my shit you die.
Other than that I have an empty room which is actually beigger than my bedroom.
Unless your scared of Stockton. ![[Eek!]](eek.gif)
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When I was 21 I had a problem like yours but worse!
I broke up with my girl(She broke up with me).
I worked for her Dad so I got fired.
We live in one of his rental so I was Ass Out.
He financed my car and I was making payments to
him. He kept my car because I couldn't pay him
off(it was in his name until I paid him off).
Start looking for a job Wednesday morning and move in with your parents. Good luck and don't do something crazy that you can't undo
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Glen if shit get's too bad, hit me up. I got a spare bedroom with bed, We could work out a deal on rent, but try to avoid being in that situation. How long do you have on your lease? She is on it too correct? If so, she hasn't been living there for how long? Was she paying rent still? If not go talk to your landlord, try to have the lease cancelled. Explain the cituation, and how she is trying to force you out. If anything it would make her have to reapply with her new bf, and possibly get denied. Also gives you a chance to duck and run for the hills.
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Glen I am sorry for the shit you're going throuh. back in 96 i had the same thing happen to me....
1) my g/f left me
2) i get aressted 3 days later coming home from work.
3) spend about 2 weeks in jail
4) she hears about and goes to my camaro and breaks into it and takes her radio out(and lies about it,then tells me 6 months later she did it)
5) i lose my job
6) i had my license taken away
7) i had too wait for 6 months AND had to get an SR41 too drive again
but i got all shit fixed and came back better than ever and loved again. So I completely understand what you're feeling. whatever you do...do not keep it all in,everyday will seem like forever until you meet someone else or it doesn't hurt anymore...but it will happen. I remember back then and how much pain i was in.....but I got through it and can laugh about it now! Remember theres always someone worse off than you! Keep on posting...we (Ca Fords) got your back!
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Damn glenn that sucks, keep your head up...
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Just remember it could be worse, like being a drug addict, or a involved in some kinda jail time. My thoughts keep your system clean of drugs (incase a prospective employer wants to drug test you) and dont get yourself into trouble with the law like a DUI.... go work out, listen to some music (anything but country) refocus your goals and priorities. Youll get passed this its just a speed bump on the path of life.
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Originally posted by 91 5.0 5speed:
p.s Your ex girlfriend sounds like she is a total slut! maybe you can slide me her #
HOLY SHIT,now thats just fukkin wrong
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