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Posted by Daniel50 (Member # 5629) on :

i added it up through my statement and in one month i spent 805.00 due to my gf. which is about 80 percent a paycheck! anybody else have this problem?

Posted by asskickn88 (Member # 4957) on :

I had one that blew threw money like it was nothing. It was a huge problem with us for years and never changed..... doesnt help that I'm bad at managing money myself. Make sure you handle that problem right now or it will kill your relationship.

Posted by 1968_Fastback (Member # 1482) on :

Get rid of her.

Posted by NorCalRydaz (Member # 3233) on :

quote:
Originally posted by 1968_Fastback:
Get rid of her.

Posted by 66backinblack (Member # 5372) on :

thats why im single now. i can hardly manage my apt, my car and my spending. if i had a steady gf i would be broke living in a box. kick her out!

Posted by streakmatt (Member # 6257) on :

I go by this motto.. M.O.B [patriot]

Posted by TRIXSNK (Member # 2844) on :

quote:
Originally posted by streakmatt:
I go by this motto.. M.O.B

Why not find a girl that makes as much if not more than you.....that's what i did [Wink]

Then you can spend her $$$.$$

Posted by N8 (Member # 6048) on :

quote:
Originally posted by streakmatt:
I go by this motto.. M.O.B

I have it tattoed on my arm, but now I am married....go figure. [Confused]

Posted by sharkattack (Member # 645) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Daniel50:
i added it up through my statement and in one month i spent 805.00 due to my gf. which is about 80 percent a paycheck! anybody else have this problem?

Spent money on what? Hell even my wife and I have separate accounts, nothing joint. She doesn't have any access to my money. Zero, zip, nada. Did that with my 1st wife too. Can never argue about money or fuck up my credit. I pay the house payment, she pays all the other bills.

Posted by twisted54 (Member # 1981) on :

quote:
Originally posted by sharkattack:

quote:
Originally posted by Daniel50:
i added it up through my statement and in one month i spent 805.00 due to my gf. which is about 80 percent a paycheck! anybody else have this problem?
Spent money on what? Hell even my wife and I have separate accounts, nothing joint. She doesn't have any access to my money. Zero, zip, nada. Did that with my 1st wife too. Can never argue about money or fuck up my credit. I pay the house payment, she pays all the other bills.

I almost do the same...

we each have a own checking and have one that's joint. We then each transfer an agreed amount from every paycheck into the joint acct. to pay bills. It works pretty good.

Posted by N8 (Member # 6048) on :

Nothing wrong with spending money on your GF. I spent a good amount of $$ on my wife when I was courting her. Now were married w/kids and a biz. And actually I dont really know how much money I have. She does all the books and stuff.. [dance]

All I know when I need something I ask her and it magically appears.

Posted by SixFiveZer0 gt 500 (Member # 6623) on :

that why u wait it out and find a girl with more brains/more looks/more money then u have....took me 23 yrs but i waited hahhaa

gdlck with that bud..ouchie! [patriot]

Posted by Jmir018 (Member # 1414) on :

i had one of those GFs that paid for nothing for over 3 years. I mean absolutely NOTHING!!
I remember it fondly still. She was russian, i was only 19 but had an incredibly good job for my skill, english level. We dated for 1.5 years and i ended up with a 5k debt and nothing to account for. Even though i made close to 20 bucks an hour and had no debts and payments whatsoever...
Most of my money went to hotel bills and other useless stuff...being young and not having a place where to get ass sucked!!!
After getting rid of her.. i managed to get out of debt and save for a car...
[patriot]

Get rid of her and save for other primordial things.

Posted by v-town coupe (Member # 2771) on :

I did notice i said "did"! lol.tell her whats up if she dont understand then u know what to do!! [burnout]

Posted by 69 Resto-Mod Coupe (Member # 296) on :

quote:
Originally posted by NorCalRydaz:

quote:
Originally posted by 1968_Fastback:
Get rid of her.

Posted by essasin (Member # 4741) on :

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Originally posted by 69 Resto-Mod Coupe:

quote:
Originally posted by NorCalRydaz:

quote:
Originally posted by 1968_Fastback:
Get rid of her.

X3

sleep with her one last time then get rid of her

Posted by FoX GT (Member # 4587) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Daniel50:
i added it up through my statement and in one month i spent 805.00 due to my gf. which is about 80 percent a paycheck! anybody else have this problem?

Man you got it good compared to me. I use to spend 3 times that amount on a normal day with my ex girlfriend.

Posted by 91PONY (Member # 206) on :

You are a pu$$y-whipped fool! Take the advice given in the replies... [Wink]

Posted by DEMENTED'$ FIFTY (Member # 7545) on :

shit i deffinetly do not have dat problem my gurl pays for my shit M.O.B

Posted by SlowStockFox (Member # 1081) on :

just be a swinger and make the girls pay. thats how its done

Posted by 166 Merlot (Member # 1549) on :

my gf spends that much on me, all I have to do is ask once [Whoo Whooooo!]

Posted by asskickn88 (Member # 4957) on :

quote:
Originally posted by 1968_Fastback:
Get rid of her.

but be sure to PIIHB first...... [patriot]

Posted by uh0h50 (Member # 3125) on :

used to have that problem.. no longer the case [worship]

Posted by 89FoxLX (Member # 7197) on :

I had that same problem for a minute, but I learned to work the situation. Put it in deep, and its all on a b*tch. Hahah.

Posted by 88DroptopGT (Member # 2535) on :

quote:
Originally posted by TRIXSNK:

quote:
Originally posted by streakmatt:
I go by this motto.. M.O.B

Why not find a girl that makes as much if not more than you.....that's what i did

Then you can spend her $$$.$$

But if she leaves you she takes half your $hit AND the kids..

Posted by HaulinAss Motorsports (Member # 541) on :

quote:
Originally posted by sharkattack:

quote:
Originally posted by Daniel50:
i added it up through my statement and in one month i spent 805.00 due to my gf. which is about 80 percent a paycheck! anybody else have this problem?
Spent money on what? Hell even my wife and I have separate accounts, nothing joint. She doesn't have any access to my money. Zero, zip, nada. Did that with my 1st wife too. Can never argue about money or fuck up my credit.

This should be MANRULE #1 in the money catergory [Big Grin]

Posted by HaulinAss Motorsports (Member # 541) on :

quote:
Originally posted by 88DroptopGT:

quote:
Originally posted by TRIXSNK:

quote:
Originally posted by streakmatt:
I go by this motto.. M.O.B

Why not find a girl that makes as much if not more than you.....that's what i did

Then you can spend her $$$.$$
But if she leaves you she takes half your $hit

Oh no its called Prenuptial Agreement [Wink]

and anything aquired prior to marriage is off limits anyhow,In CA at least,only shit aquired after marriage is considered a joint asset,but thats the point of the Prenup [Big Grin]

Posted by TRIXSNK (Member # 2844) on :

quote:
Originally posted by 88DroptopGT:

quote:
Originally posted by TRIXSNK:

quote:
Originally posted by streakmatt:
I go by this motto.. M.O.B

Why not find a girl that makes as much if not more than you.....that's what i did

Then you can spend her $$$.$$
But if she leaves you she takes half your $hit AND the kids..

That's your bad then for not makin it work .....not just you but her as well (2 way street when it comes to marriage in my book)

And just like others have mentioned it's a good idea to make damn sure you finances our somewhat seperate and not all tied up into one account.

I think that's why my g/f hates me sometimes.....she's ready to marry but i need to know for sure that we are both on fairly equal grounds financially so that niether one of us has to depend on the other [Smile]

Posted by Yellow94GT (Member # 431) on :

quote:
Originally posted by TRIXSNK:

quote:
Originally posted by streakmatt:
I go by this motto.. M.O.B

Why not find a girl that makes as much if not more than you.....that's what i did

Then you can spend her $$$.$$

I agree with this statement 110% [Big Grin]

My woman just bought me a new set of 40's for the truck with some of her tax return! [Big Grin]

[ April 13, 2007, 04:49 PM: Message edited by: Yellow94GT ]

Posted by BCINGUU (Member # 2397) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Yellow94GT:
My women just bought me a new set of 40's ...

"women"? How many girls you got Drew? [Wink]

Posted by Venomized93 (Member # 55) on :

Is she asking you to do this, or are you doing this because it feels right thing to do?

Posted by Yellow94GT (Member # 431) on :

quote:
Originally posted by BCINGUU:

quote:
Originally posted by Yellow94GT:
My women just bought me a new set of 40's ...
"women"? How many girls you got Drew?

lol

*edits post*

Only one woman for me......well, thats if you don't count 98Slowhoe, Jackpine 50 and Red89GT's women. [Wink]

Posted by ilikeV8torque (Member # 6509) on :

Damn, In my opinion, if you let a woman do that to you, she must be damn good lookin' and has the bomb as pu$$y for you to let that happen to begin with.

Guys usually let that kind of thing happen when they are pu$$y whipped thinkin' they might not be able to get somethin' good again.

Posted by Daniel50 (Member # 5629) on :

i think the biggest problem with her spending a lot of my money is that its taking away from mustang money

Posted by 1968_Fastback (Member # 1482) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Venomized93:
Is she asking you to do this, or are you doing this because it feels right thing to do?

Posted by ArchNotch (Member # 5177) on :

quote:
Originally posted by DEMENTED'$ FIFTY:
shit i deffinetly do not have dat problem my gurl pays for my shit M.O.B

Thats how we do.

Posted by 93grbrGT (Member # 6655) on :

My last girl didn't drain my money, but she did like draining something else of mine............

Posted by Yellow94GT (Member # 431) on :

lol

Posted by HaulinAss Motorsports (Member # 541) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Daniel50:
i think the biggest problem with her spending a lot of my money is that its taking away from mustang money

if you are allowing her to do it then why are you crying about it here? sack the fukk up,tell her to get off her ass and get a job.if she has one,tell he to get a better paying job.

Posted by rgtrahn (Member # 7133) on :

I've been with my girl for 3years now. When we first started dating I spent every dime on her! The worst thing I could have done was get a credit card... But, over time I have come to the conclusion that it takes two, so for the most part we split everything and it seems to workout great and we do more things now.

Posted by cummins (Member # 5931) on :

quote:
Originally posted by streakmatt:
I go by this motto.. M.O.B

Wrong, you go by this motto: G.A.Y.

Posted by rgtrahn (Member # 7133) on :

quote:
Originally posted by cummins:

quote:
Originally posted by streakmatt:
I go by this motto.. M.O.B
Wrong, you go by this motto: G.A.Y.

LMFAO!

Posted by 93grbrGT (Member # 6655) on :

quote:
Originally posted by HaulinAss Motorsports:

quote:
Originally posted by Daniel50:
i think the biggest problem with her spending a lot of my money is that its taking away from mustang money
if you are allowing her to do it then why are you crying about it here? sack the fukk up,tell her to get off her ass and get a job.if she has one,tell he to get a better paying job.

Posted by 93grbrGT (Member # 6655) on :

quote:
Originally posted by cummins:

quote:
Originally posted by streakmatt:
I go by this motto.. M.O.B
Wrong, you go by this motto: G.A.Y.

LOL

Posted by FoRdGiRl (Member # 6279) on :

quote:
Originally posted by FoX GT:

quote:
Originally posted by Daniel50:
i added it up through my statement and in one month i spent 805.00 due to my gf. which is about 80 percent a paycheck! anybody else have this problem?
Man you got it good compared to me. I use to spend 3 times that amount on a normal day with my ex girlfriend.

That would explain why you think your gonna find a chick that makes 100,000 a mo and will let u stay home and spend her money [Big Grin]

Posted by FoRdGiRl (Member # 6279) on :

I wish my x could read this crap I supported him for 2 yrs when he didnt have a job and then the second he had to help me for anything he suddenly doesnt remember those years of his life [Roll Eyes]

I think it should be mutual and if you are keeping track of what your spending on someone their not that important to you and you probably shouldnt be with them [Wink]

also people shouldnt let themselves be with people that are constantly spending someone elses money and not contribuiting themselves but if your gonna be a guy that throws or flashes his money at a girl you cant be surprised if she takes what she can [Big Grin]

Posted by streakmatt (Member # 6257) on :

quote:
Originally posted by cummins:

quote:
Originally posted by streakmatt:
I go by this motto.. M.O.B
Wrong, you go by this motto: G.A.Y.

and you go by this.. P.O.S

[ April 16, 2007, 06:21 PM: Message edited by: streakmatt ]

Posted by CLEEN 50 (Member # 5867) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Daniel50:
i added it up through my statement and in one month i spent 805.00 due to my gf. which is about 80 percent a paycheck! anybody else have this problem?

LMAO

You better tell that brod to get a damn job. Its 50/50 in the real world, don't let her play you. Relationships are about trade-offs you buy her something she buys you something. If you buy more in the long run which men usually do then when it comes time to ask for something, ask for something you really want. Explain it to her and if she can't get the picture then kick her to the curb and say no gold diggers allowed. lol

[ April 16, 2007, 06:12 PM: Message edited by: CLEEN 50 ]

Posted by CLEEN 50 (Member # 5867) on :

quote:
Originally posted by twisted54:

quote:
Originally posted by sharkattack:

quote:
Originally posted by Daniel50:
i added it up through my statement and in one month i spent 805.00 due to my gf. which is about 80 percent a paycheck! anybody else have this problem?
Spent money on what? Hell even my wife and I have separate accounts, nothing joint. She doesn't have any access to my money. Zero, zip, nada. Did that with my 1st wife too. Can never argue about money or fuck up my credit. I pay the house payment, she pays all the other bills.
I almost do the same...

we each have a own checking and have one that's joint. We then each transfer an agreed amount from every paycheck into the joint acct. to pay bills. It works pretty good.

This works like a charm [patriot]

Posted by cummins (Member # 5931) on :

quote:
Originally posted by streakmatt:

quote:
Originally posted by cummins:

quote:
Originally posted by streakmatt:
I go by this motto.. M.O.B
Wrong, you go by this motto: G.A.Y.
and you go by this.. P.O.S

Person Of Superiority??? Why yes I do thank you very much I'm superior to you! Now get on your knees and bow down bitch!

Posted by streakmatt (Member # 6257) on :

quote:
Originally posted by cummins:

quote:
Originally posted by streakmatt:

quote:
Originally posted by cummins:

quote:
Originally posted by streakmatt:
I go by this motto.. M.O.B
Wrong, you go by this motto: G.A.Y.
and you go by this.. P.O.S
Piece of shit??? Why yes I am thank you very much I'm the biggest P.O.S on here! Now i will get on my knees and suck dick for coke!

You have some problems!

Cummin' in last, Why do you hang around like a lost dog on CA Fords? You have NOTHING in common here. Shouldn't you be trolling some supra site like www.13secETwith600rwhp.com...Go kick rocks you Solara driving BITCH!!

[ April 16, 2007, 11:58 PM: Message edited by: streakmatt ]

Posted by NorCalRydaz (Member # 3233) on :

My old homie use to say," Why buy them when u could rent them". Not what I live buy but in reality maybe renting a chick would be cheaper!

Posted by cummins (Member # 5931) on :

What is wrong with a Solara? Well?

Posted by gt from 650 (Member # 6717) on :

I got a 93 cavalier. You wanna run 'em? [patriot]

Posted by GRIGGYJAMESJIMBO (Member # 6319) on :

quote:
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Originally posted by streakmatt:
I go by this motto.. M.O.B
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I have it tattoed on my arm, but now I am married....go figure.

Ha ha LOL, thats sum funny shit, everyone and their mom that I know has that tatted on 'em. I'm a cheap ass when it comes to spending money on gurls. And I still get laid [Confused]

. Go figure, the most expensive lady's ive ever OWNED, 1989COUPE, and 1987LX. I love 'em both, I'm a polygamist. LOL [dance]

Posted by cummins (Member # 5931) on :

quote:
Originally posted by gt from 650:
I got a 93 cavalier. You wanna run 'em?

hahahaahha you'd probably beat me! The Solara is slow as shit! I actually had a 94 cavalier back in the day and it would saw foos off light to light. I may need to get another supra to take on that cavi!

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