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sharkattack
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20 years old? Dude you are so young. Want good advise? Go see a Recruiter (pick a branch) that will turn your life around. Doesn't even have to be that hard. I'd pick the Coast Guard myself. I was already a Marine.
No shit, leave all this shit behind and start fresh. No better way to get away. Ask some of the members on this board who have served or are serving right now. My 4 years in the Corps were the best thing for me, no doubt.
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Posts: 935 | From: Oakley Ca | Registered: Dec 2001
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Dyrti Byrd 2k2
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sup man... I don't know you, but I would say that your troubles now could be paving your way to a much better lifestyle.
so you broke up with your gf for 2 1/2 years and she has the nerve to move back in to the apartment you've both shared AND wants your key?!? It looks like you got out of a relationship with a broad that has a pretty bitchy attitude. I don't see any type of compassion or respect when she demands such things.
Losing your job is tough, but finding a new job AND being single just seems so refreshing. Kinda like a new start. Find a part-time gig ASAP, but focus on finding a job that you'll enjoy. Don't trip about the hours you'll be working (unless you're in school) because you're single now. You don't need to set time aside for the GF.
Moving in with your parents is a good idea, but that could get depressing. If you have siblings that you get along with, that might help. If Fostang is serious about you movin' in with him, maybe you should consider it.
Take this opportunity to push for a better lifestle. Again, think positive. Eat Healthy and hit the gym. These are key to feeling better about yourself.
I was pretty much in the same boat that you're in around the same age. I looked at everything that went wrong in my relationship (jealousy, over-protective, etc.) and thought about how I could move forward and kill all of my "young-minded" thinking. A year after that relationship, I got into a new one and that new relationship is going on 6 years and still strong.
At your age, this is a good time to mature, grow up, pick your head up and face everything like a man.
And Hey... YOU'RE SINGLE... CONGRATULATIONS! =) [ October 19, 2005, 12:59 PM: Message edited by: Dyrti Byrd 2k2 ]
Posts: 76 | From: San Francisco | Registered: May 2003
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Spitfiremk24
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Hey, its things like this that show everyone how much we take for granted. Everybody is guilty of this! Believe it or not, things could be worse. I know thats not what you want to hear right now, but try look at what you still have and be grateful, dont take things for granted, look on the bright side and count your blessings everyday.
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Posts: 218 | From: East Bay | Registered: May 2005
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BLK02GT
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yes this does suck major ass! but she IS also on the lease not just me..and i told her that if she moves back in and HE is going to be there to take me off the lease and put his ass on there. im just stressed out like crazy. plus i sprained a muscle around my shoulder..and it fuckin hurts hella bad..and now i need therapy for it...fuck..whatever..things will get better as long as i got you guys!
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Posts: 1247 | From: Tracy, ca | Registered: May 2005
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BLK02GT
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quote: Originally posted by 91 5.0 5speed:
p.s Your ex girlfriend sounds like she is a total slut! maybe you can slide me her #
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Posts: 1247 | From: Tracy, ca | Registered: May 2005
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03SVTPower
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Should of took the fuckin piss test for the company and abide by thier policies, maybe then youd still have a job. Taco Bell is hiring
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Posts: 3481 | From: Nor-Cal | Registered: Oct 2001
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liftedF150
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quote: Originally posted by Red00GT: quote: Originally posted by 91 5.0 5speed:
p.s Your ex girlfriend sounds like she is a total slut! maybe you can slide me her #
I agree thats a pritty fucked up statement to make after the shit youve gone through...
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Posts: 3259 | From: Discovery Bay | Registered: Feb 2002
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BLK02GT
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quote: Originally posted by 03SVTPower: Should of took the fuckin piss test for the company and abide by thier policies, maybe then youd still have a job. Taco Bell is hiring
i NEVER refused to take the test..my company said "ok thats fine...its ok..well send someone to get him" exact words! if they wanted me to stay and take the test they shoulda said "no you have to stay that is our policy that you have to take the test"...
yea taco bell is hiring over here too
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Posts: 1247 | From: Tracy, ca | Registered: May 2005
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94gt
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quote: Originally posted by Red00GT: quote: Originally posted by 03SVTPower: Should of took the fuckin piss test for the company and abide by thier policies, maybe then youd still have a job. Taco Bell is hiring
i NEVER refused to take the test..my company said "ok thats fine...its ok..well send someone to get him" exact words! if they wanted me to stay and take the test they shoulda said "no you have to stay that is our policy that you have to take the test"...
yea taco bell is hiring over here too
so, exactly why did you get fired? for not taking a piss test when they asked you? Or was it becasue of something drug related? more details plz
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Posts: 5777 | From: Beavercreek, OH | Registered: Jul 2003
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Chris C.
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If you need any advice about your lease, and your apt. PM the details, Im a leasing Agent and have been one for almost 4 years, Im sure i can help ya out a bit.
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Posts: 636 | From: San Jose, Ca | Registered: Oct 2002
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bunchmyfunky
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quote: Originally posted by sharkattack: 20 years old? Dude you are so young. Want good advise? Go see a Recruiter (pick a branch) that will turn your life around. Doesn't even have to be that hard. I'd pick the Coast Guard myself. I was already a Marine.
No shit, leave all this shit behind and start fresh. No better way to get away. Ask some of the members on this board who have served or are serving right now. My 4 years in the Corps were the best thing for me, no doubt.
Best advice
Posts: 2433 | From: Vacaville | Registered: Jul 2001
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94gt
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quote: Originally posted by bunchmyfunky: quote: Originally posted by sharkattack: 20 years old? Dude you are so young. Want good advise? Go see a Recruiter (pick a branch) that will turn your life around. Doesn't even have to be that hard. I'd pick the Coast Guard myself. I was already a Marine.
No shit, leave all this shit behind and start fresh. No better way to get away. Ask some of the members on this board who have served or are serving right now. My 4 years in the Corps were the best thing for me, no doubt.
Best advice
I agree, its a great life... but go USAF (I'm biased)
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Posts: 5777 | From: Beavercreek, OH | Registered: Jul 2003
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NorCalRydaz
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damn that sounds like drama. U should try to get away from that girl as soon as possible. The longer u stick around the more its gonna hurt.. Hit up the clubs N find urself a good ho.
Posts: 2963 | From: San Jo | Registered: Sep 2003
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65 custom
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hey whats up man i know what u mean my girl broke up with me after about a year in a half. but i cant really blame her i am kinda far living in germany and all so if u like to travel than join the usaf. pretty cool. man like i went to romania and let me tell u that is an untapped resoruse right there oh my god. but any ways back on track hang in there it will get better. and just get out and do something sitting around sucks cause u just think about it. later
Posts: 128 | From: mountian view | Registered: Aug 2003
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