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Posted by NEIGHT (Member # 8741) on
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Well it's been 10 years today that I lost my older brother. I been having a bad day all day kuz that's all I could think about so as soon as I got off of work I went home changed N shot straight to his grave site. I was lucky to have gotten there when no one else was so I had my alone time to talk to him N just reminise on the past. What sucked about it is that I pictured the burial perfectly with all the kids climbing the tree right next to his grave N him slowly going down with me just bursting out in tears the worst I've ever cried in my life N I'm not gonna lie it brought some good tears to my eyes just picturing it all. As much as I hate to say this after his passing my life turned for the worst I used to be really good in school but after I never gave a shit N most people say I'm an emotionless person which is pretty much true. All in all I hope I can see him alive at least once again just so I can say goodbye to him properly. Just in case if anyone was wondering lost him to street racing.
R.I.P Hector Sergio Sandoval miss N love you ![[Frown]](frown.gif)
Posted by Slowback67 (Member # 6348) on
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I didn't realize you had a brother that past away till just now.
Sorry for the loss of your brother and I can't imagine how that feels to loose a brother or sister. All you can really do is think about the good times you had and focus on that.
Posted by Nifty50 (Member # 9987) on
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the passing of a loved one is never easy to deal with. I also lost one of my brothers to street racing and another one of my brothers to murder. Hang in there and stay strong.
Posted by nitrous_bob (Member # 77) on
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that sux man...
im an older brother
2 of us and 3 girls
5 years in between me and my lil bro....but he's my best friend
i feel for ya, good luck tonight, DONT get stupid and drive, your parents have been thru enuff and cab fare is cheap
have fun and be safe
Posted by NEIGHT (Member # 8741) on
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He's not literally my brother he's my cousin but he was at my house EVERY DAY with my older brother. When he was alive he was ALWAYS nice to me like when I wanted to tag along my brother would get all mad N say no but my cousin would always have me go with them. He was always a respectful person N was always happy. He left when he was only 18 graduated from high school.
Posted by 94 N.C.F. GT (Member # 3946) on
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did he crash racing or running from the cops?? if you rather not say its koo.
Posted by NEIGHT (Member # 8741) on
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Originally posted by 94 N.C.F. GT:
did he crash racing or running from the cops?? if you rather not say its koo.
Racing. He was not driving he was in the passenger his friend also passed away but on impact.
Posted by 87_Hatch (Member # 6714) on
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Hector and his dad (el teton) and my family where good friends through soccer. He was a good person from when i knew him growing up in menlo. RIP sorry for ur loss.
Posted by 95gtdrop (Member # 7478) on
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All things a side I don't know what I'd do if I lost my brother. It makes me tear up thinking about it. Sorry for your loss man.
Posted by NEIGHT (Member # 8741) on
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Originally posted by 95gtdrop:
All things a side I don't know what I'd do if I lost my brother. It makes me tear up thinking about it. Sorry for your loss man.
Yeah it's definitely the worst emotional pain I've ever had, I was only 10 years old at the time.
Posted by triple black hatch (Member # 5420) on
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Sorry for your loss I feel your pain. Yesterday was my nephew one year that he passed away he was 18 too. He grew up living with me. Did your cousin accident happend behind Malibu in redwood city?
Posted by NEIGHT (Member # 8741) on
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Originally posted by triple black hatch:
Sorry for your loss I feel your pain. Yesterday was my nephew one year that he passed away he was 18 too. He grew up living with me. Did your cousin accident happend behind Malibu in redwood city?
Yup that was it.
Posted by triple black hatch (Member # 5420) on
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Originally posted by NEIGHT:
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Originally posted by triple black hatch:
Sorry for your loss I feel your pain. Yesterday was my nephew one year that he passed away he was 18 too. He grew up living with me. Did your cousin accident happend behind Malibu in redwood city?
Yup that was it.
I remember that accident keep your head up bro it really sucks loosing a family member.
Posted by 166 Merlot (Member # 1549) on
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Dont be a loser - go against the stereotype blood! Goto school and get your hustle on, make him proud. Start givin a shit, i wish i would have...
Sorry for ur loss
[ October 18, 2012, 10:10 PM: Message edited by: 166 Merlot ]
Posted by SETONKILL (Member # 7277) on
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sorry for your loss.
Posted by SLOWFOX (Member # 11067) on
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Rip hector and emotionless dont think so you just made this post bro. Loosing any loved one is hard just keep your head up and look back into your guy's best times. And always keep him in your prayers to keep him at peace. Your blessed everyday bro am pretty sure hes still sticking up for you man. Rip..and sorry gor your loss.
Posted by x93chp (Member # 6046) on
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sorry for you lost bro.
Posted by NEIGHT (Member # 8741) on
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Thanks everyone. ![[patriot]](graemlins/patriot.gif)
Posted by NotACop_281 (Member # 11498) on
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Sorry for your loss bro keep your head up
Posted by 94 N.C.F. GT (Member # 3946) on
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Originally posted by SETONKILL:
sorry for your loss.
![[worship]](graemlins/worship.gif)
Posted by Venomousnotch (Member # 8695) on
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Sorry for your loss bro...
Posted by turbo50 (Member # 6700) on
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Sorry for your loss. I lost my baby brother 9 years ago this past may.
You will see him again.
Posted by autumnstang97 (Member # 6111) on
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Hold your head high and make him proud, and starting giving life a chance. Shoot straight and don't let things bring you down. Sorry for your loss man.
Posted by BULLITTMAN (Member # 8468) on
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Sorry for your loss bro, he's still watching over you...
Posted by Pure Stang (Member # 7251) on
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Keep your head up.... I can't even think about me losing bother or sister. I would say don't drink to forget but I would be a hypocrite(spelling?)... Just be safe..,
Posted by Marks93 (Member # 11130) on
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Sorry to hear that Neight. I have 3 brothers and don't know how I'd act if I lost one of them.
Posted by v-town coupe (Member # 2771) on
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Sorry for your loss Neight.
Posted by KRZ4EYE (Member # 4482) on
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Originally posted by NEIGHT:
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Originally posted by 94 N.C.F. GT:
did he crash racing or running from the cops?? if you rather not say its koo.
Racing. He was not driving he was in the passenger his friend also passed away but on impact.
Hey Neight by any chance do you know the name of the guy who was driving? I also had a family member pass away while street racing 10 years ago.
[ October 19, 2012, 12:34 PM: Message edited by: KRZ4EYE ]
Posted by racsirx (Member # 1710) on
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Sorry for your loss of your brother
Posted by NEIGHT (Member # 8741) on
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Originally posted by KRZ4EYE:
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Originally posted by NEIGHT:
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Originally posted by 94 N.C.F. GT:
did he crash racing or running from the cops?? if you rather not say its koo.
Racing. He was not driving he was in the passenger his friend also passed away but on impact.
Hey Neight by any chance do you know the name of the guy who was driving? I also had a family member pass away while street racing 10 years ago.
Juan
Posted by KRZ4EYE (Member # 4482) on
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Originally posted by NEIGHT:
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Originally posted by KRZ4EYE:
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Originally posted by NEIGHT:
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Originally posted by 94 N.C.F. GT:
[qb] did he crash racing or running from the cops?? if you rather not say its koo.
Racing. He was not driving he was in the passenger his friend also passed away but on impact.
Hey Neight by any chance do you know the name of the guy who was driving? I also had a family member pass away while street racing 10 years ago.
Juan [/QB
I was at that funeral, Juan was my cousin.
Posted by 2T0NE (Member # 4216) on
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Originally posted by NEIGHT:
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Originally posted by triple black hatch:
Sorry for your loss I feel your pain. Yesterday was my nephew one year that he passed away he was 18 too. He grew up living with me. Did your cousin accident happend behind Malibu in redwood city?
Yup that was it.
you know the crazy part is that when i was 17 ten yrs ago i was supposed to get a 5.0 mustang WANTED IT SOOO BAD but my mom said know you got some relative in redwoodcity who just lost his son racing by malibu, i said WHAAAAT i would never race if i gota mustang mom. i ended up with a 1999 civic si sold it 2yrs later and bought 2 5.0s...had 6 stangs ever since...crazy redwood is str8 lil michigan..everybody knows each other..sorry for your loss neight i remember that accident cuz it was the reason i could geta stang
Posted by BLoWN FR500 (Member # 8766) on
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SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.....KEEP YA HEAD UP MAN.
Posted by fredfifty (Member # 10320) on
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Death anniversaries are painful...comin up on 3 years this month for my buddy in my sig...
Sorry for the loss.
Posted by dubfive-0 (Member # 8965) on
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Keep your head up bro. Make him proud and get your money and education.
I hear you about not been able to say good bye, I lost my grandfather and grandmother. I just wish I could say good bye and hug them one more time
Posted by nitrous_bob (Member # 77) on
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Originally posted by NEIGHT:
He's not literally my brother he's my cousin
theres really no diff bro
its all how you see it, and i still wish you the best
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