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Posted by Insurance Dude (Member # 8241) on :
 
question...

I have a very good friend who i have been friends with since the 1st grade. we do not hang out as much anymore but i still consider he like a sister to me.

she has been and still is in a serious relationship. they guy she is with very cool someone who i have always gotten along with.

i heard though the grap vine that he is cheating on my friend. i did some digging and i have confirmed that the info is true. they have been together for over 6 years but he has been cheating for about the last year with just one other person.

my loyalty lies completly with my old friend she was a my friend first and she is my oldest friend. but part of me really does not want to get involved at all especally since i really like the guy she is with.

advise? cuz i am not really sure what to do.
 
Posted by 90gtvert (Member # 8697) on :
 
Tough situation. I have always told my friends that If this was happening I would want to know. If she really is like a sister to you, then whats best for her is to know the truth IMO.

No one wants to feel/look like a fool when someone is cheating on them, most people know about it except for the person being cheated on.

My .02 take it for what its worth.

Mike
 
Posted by NiftyWhiteFifty (Member # 4320) on :
 
I say she deserves to know. If I were in your situation I would tell her [patriot]
 
Posted by 9cobra7 (Member # 2812) on :
 
Simply put: Just think of her as your sister and the answer is clear. You wouldn't want your sister dating a cheater soooooo...........
 
Posted by Insurance Dude (Member # 8241) on :
 
thanks for the advise guys. hearing what you have to say does make me realize i know that the right thing to do is telling her.

i hope they are able to work it out. but i know that if it were me i would not be able to forgive my spouse for cheating.
 
Posted by 90gtvert (Member # 8697) on :
 
There is always the other way:


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Kidding, that only happens in JaeJae's neighborhood

[Wink]

Mike

[ November 11, 2008, 08:03 PM: Message edited by: 90gtvert ]
 
Posted by *302DROP* (Member # 1323) on :
 
i say call joey greko from cheaters on put it on national TV
 
Posted by 90gtvert (Member # 8697) on :
 
^^^^^ That would be the shit
 




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